Find the Right Fit:

A Guide to Bay Area Private Schools

We created this guide for parents exploring schools across the Bay Area who are thinking beyond academics alone.   While strong curriculum matters, many families are also looking for schools that support critical thinking, multilingual learning, social-emotional growth - especially for gifted learners and neurodivergent students.  The schools featured here are well-regarded, but smaller or lesser-known schools can be just as impactful when there's strong leadership, caring teachers, and a leaning environment that fits a child's needs.
The Silicon Valley International School Campus
Silicon Valley International School operates as a dual-campus. Unlike Nueva or Harker, the design of the school is around Bilingualism.

Private Schools in Palo Alto

Explore Private Schools in Palo Alto and Nearby Menlo Park for PK–8 and Middle School Students.

Palo Alto private schools offer a distinct landscape where families can choose between high-intensity academic environments and holistic, community-centric "havens."

While high-profile options like The Nueva School (Hillsborough/San Mateo) draw many Palo Alto families, the local schools cater specifically to those seeking specialized instruction or cultural depth alongside a high level of STEM competition readiness. It's worth mentioning that German Internaitonl School standouts for it's dual-diploma program for tuition-free entry to European univiersities. The $75,000 AI-driven Alpha School is looking to make its debut in Palo Alto after it's launch in SF, read what parents like and dislike about their experiences here.

Silicon Valley International School

Pre-12th
$$$
🎓 Academic | 🌍 Bilingual
Global language immersion with French, Mandarin, and German; IB PYP & MYP programs. Strong college prep and world perspective. Offers a cohesive Pre-K through middle school pathway.


Admission Selectivity
: HIgh
Best for: Aside form the multi-lingual aspects,  Ivy admission officeres know IB well.
📍 151 Laura Lane, Palo Alto, CA 94303 (K-5);
4700 Alameda de las Pulgas, Menlo Park, CA 94025 (Middle School)

Key's School

K-8
$$$
💖 Nurturing
Strong parent praise for human-centered approach and it's social emotional learning (SEL) emphasis though the academic "floor" is lower than neighboring pressure-cooker schools kids feel supported and encouraged to explore interests. Strong focus on the devellpment needs of middle schoolers.

Admission Selectivity: Medium to High
Best for: Kids who thrive in community-centered, emotionally supportive environments.
📍 4984 El Camino Real Suite 100, Los Altos, CA 94022

Castilleja School

PK-8
$$$$
🎓 Academic
Girls-focused education with empowering environment builds confidence and leadership. Though the workload may be intense and the sports ratings are low.

Admission Selectivity: High
Best for: Girls who are seeking collaborative, leadership opportunites with rigorous prep.
📍 2890 Middlefield Rd, Palo Alto, CA 94306

Synapse School

PK-8
$$$
🤖 Tech-Focused
If SVIS is about globalism, Synapse is about innovation and SEL (Social-Emotional Learning) - but with different angle from Peninsula school (progressive/play) or Alpha school. While Parents like high-tech integration; heavy focus on Emotional Intelligence. The campus is in a business park, not a traditional leafy school yard, some. parents feel a bit "experimental" in both positive and negative ways.  

Admission Selectivity: High (assement, waitlist)
Best for: Curious, innovative kids in small ratio
📍3375 Edison Way, Menlo Park, CA 94025

Peninsula School

PK-8
$$
🌲 Nature/Play | 💖 Nurturing
The counter balance of Silicon Valley's pressure-driven cultrue. Kids thrive in theater, music, nature-filled outdoor education withsocial-emotional learning emphasis and neurodivergent student support. Parnets love the lack of homework and strong bond but also note on inconsistent academics/standards.

Admission Selectivity: Medium to High
Best for: Free-spirited kids thriving in creative and supportive settings.
📍920 Peninsula Way, Menlo Park, CA 94025

Bowen School

PreK-18
$$$
💖 Nurturing |🌲 Nature/Play
Small-class aporach. Bowman is currently the only Montessori school in California accredited to serve students from infancy through 12th grade, and is authorized International Baccalaureate (IB) in Dec, 2024 and May 2025.  It offers ultimate flexiblity that families pick their own vacation days, and have non-homework policy. Though the transparency of the management, and it's self-paced math curriculum can leave students years behind their publich school peers.

Admission Selectivity: Moderate
Best for: Parents interested in Montessori approach, IB program at the upper school, and flexibility calender that are tailored for International parents.
📍 400 Terman Dr, Palo Alto, CA 94306

Sacred Heart Schools, Atherton

PreK-12
$$
 🌲 Nature/Play | 🤖 Tech-Focused
Sacred Heart has some of the best facilities, such as their "DREAM lab, and the
Creative Inquiry" department, and their FIRST Robotics team is highly competative. While it is co-ed, it maintains a strong focus on the "empowerment of women" and leadership. Parents love the aprawling, beautiful campus, the "whole child" approach, farm-to-table program, and expansive sustainable gardens used for science. Emphasis on social justice and service are also highlighted. Some may feel that it's very "exlusive" and socially homogeneous.

Admission Selectivity: High
Best for: Students value character and community service as much as GPA.
📍 150 Valparaiso Ave, Atherton, CA 94027

Private Schools in Mountain View

STEM-Focused & Innovative Learning Environments for Elementary and Middle School Learners in Mountain View and Los Altos

While Palo Alto is known for high-pressure "accelerators," schools in Los Altos and Mountain View tend to be more future-ready driven. German International School of Silicon Valley offers German curriculum and strong college acceptances, St. Nicholas Catholic Schools offers decent acdemic and whole-child development with a scenic 17-acre campus, and Reggio-inspired Ventana School that focus on child-led learning are the options in the area.

Pinewood School

K-12
$$
💖 Nurturing | 🎨 Creative Arts
Exceptional student-teacher ratios (7:1) and a robust performing arts program. It feels like a small, tight-knit family where students are "known" by all faculty. Some find the campuses "tiny", and students entering in middle or high school may find it difficult to break into long-established social circles.

Admission Selectivity: Medium
Best for: Parents interested in Montessori approach, IB program at the upper school, and flexibility calender that are tailored for International parents.
📍 26800 Fremont Rd, Los Altos Hills, CA.

Yew Chung International School of Silicon Valley

PreK-8
$$$
🌍 Bilingual
A unique co-teaching model where an English-speaking and Chinese-speaking teacher share the classroom. Academics outside of theChinese progarm are sometimes described "lax".

Admission Selectivity: Medium
Best for: Families prioritize Mandarin/English bilingual immersion and international focus.
📍310 EasySt. Mountain View, CA 94043

Waldorf School of the Peninsula

PreK-12
$
🌲 Nature/Play
High empasis on creativity, outdor play, and emotional intelligence. It is a rare "no-tech" haven in the heart of Bay Area. While screen free draw many fans, some parents may not prefer delayed-tech approach.  Math and science progression is slower than traditional schools in early years, parents are expected to supplement with outside tutoring.

Admission Selectivity: Medium
Best for: Kids benefiting from creative, distraction-free education and parents who advocating screen-free for their kids.
📍  11311 Mora Dr, Los Altos, CA 94024

Khan Lab School

TK-12
$$$
🤖 Tech-Focused
No traditional "letter grades" (uses mastery tracking) and mixed-age cohorts that allow students to move faster in subjects they excel in. Weaknesses: As a "lab school," the curriculum and structure can change frequently, which may feel unstable for parents who prefer a traditional, predictable pipeline.

Admission Selectivity: High (demo may be required)
Best for: Independant kids preferred self-paced challenges.
📍  1200 Villa St, Mountain View, CA 94041

Private Schools in Cupertino

Find High-Performing Academic Excellence Private Schools in Cupertino and the Surrounding Saratoga Area.

It's one of the areas where tech, robotics, or machine learning and STEM comeptition mphasized.  Parents in this region typically fall into two camps: those seeking the highest possible academic ceiling and those looking to escape the hyper-competitive pressure of local public schools. The school landscape reflects this, offering elite "STEM factories" alongside nurturing "whole-child" havens. Other popular choices are Statford (accelerated curriculum but more affordable), Challenger (traditiona approach with emphasis on phonics and logics), and Leadways (personalized micro-school).

The Harker

K-12
$$$$
🎓 Academic
Harker is a powerhouse for national competitions. For the Class of 2026, a record 40% of the senior class (78 students) were named National Merit Semifinalists. The school has a dedicated college counselling depatment that secures matriculation to tip-tier uniersities. It's also cited that its robotics, and computer science are among the best in the country. Students often engage in post-AP level coursework in math and science, praised for its performing arts, speeech and debate, and journalisam program.

However, the most common criticism is the extreme workloadin a hyper-competative enviornment. The learning support is limited and some families feel social -emotional learning takes a backseat. Some families are also not impressed with their lab compaing to what they see in Nueva, Menlo School, and even Basis in thier middle school campus. And the kids seem to lack "spark" comparing to other schools that encourage "indiviuality".

Admission Selectivity: High
Best for: Naturally brilliant, highly competative, and academically resilient children.
📍 500 Saratoga Ave, SJ (Upper School), 4525 Union Ave, SJ (Middle), 4300 Bucknall Rd, SJ (Lower), 888 Boynton Ave (TK)

Tessellations School

PreK-8
$$$
🎓 Academic |🌲 Nature/Play
It utilizes a nature-based and project-based curriculum. A standout feature is the 10-acre campus where students engage in outdoor education- though it has recent reductions in nature campus frequency.  Highly personalized instruction; Academics are grouped by ability rather than age, allowing students to "leapfrog" ahead in their strengths, particularly in math. As a newer school (founded 2020), it has faced admin/leadership challenges. * High School will be available soon.

Admission Selectivity: Medium to High (demo may be required)
Best for: Asynchronous" learners—children who may be cognitively advanced but have different social-emotional needs or "quirkiness" that traditional schools cannot accommodate
📍  11750 Montague Expy, Cupertino, CA 95014

Saint Andrew's Episcopal School

TK-8
$$$
🤖 Tech-Focused
Star Kids positions itself as an interactive STEAM education provider, using gaming mechanics and themed projects to keep students engaged and motivated. Classes and camps focus on building and programming robots (VEX, LEGO platforms) with structured projects each week. Some camps include “robot competition” style activities, though this is more theme-based than formal league competition.

Admission Selectivity: High (demo may be required)
Best for: Independant kids preferred self-paced challenges.
📍10181 Finch Ave, Cupertino, CA 95014 (camp location; programs run here and at partner sites

Private Schools in Sunnyvale

Premier College Preparatory & Bilingual IB program - private school options in Sunnyvale and nearby Santa Clara.

Sunnyvale/Santa Clara private schools often lean towards innovative, tech-focused, or highly competitive college-prep models (like BASIS, Harker), In addition to the list below, Saint Lawrence Elementary & Middle is this area's premier Catholic option, i is highly valued for its warm and nurturing environment and its success in integrating technology into a value-based curriculum. Grenada Islamic Schoool provides a strong community and academic foundation.

Stratford School

Age 5-12
$$
🎓 Academic
Strong parent reviews emphasize excellent STEM focused academics and enrichment clubs like coding; balanced environment without raw competitiveness. Reviews and extracurricular options vary by location.

Admission Selectivity: Medium
Best for: Students who benefit from consistent academic expectations without excessive pressure
📍P.O. Box 3104, Santa Clara (partner sites).

The King's Academy

K-12
$$
🎨 Creative Arts
Strong college prep with a standout Visual and Performing Arts (VPA)program and 15+ varsity sports. Strengths: A warm, inclusive community—lots of school spirit and extracurricular depth. Though, not all parents love Strictly religious curriculum; parents who are not aligned with Christian values may find it too narrow

Admission Selectivity: Moderate
Best for: Families who care about raising kids with strong Christian value.
📍562 N BrittonAve, Sunnyvale, CA 94085

Challenger School

PreK-8
$$
🎓 Academic
Rote-learning mastery. Parents who want their kids to have "perfect" grammar, phonics, and mental math skills swear by Challenger. Often criticized on Reddit for a lack of high-tech, and not so much on creativity, or social-emotional development. Notable Standout Programs: Logic and accelerated phonics starting in Preschool.

Admission Selectivity: Medium (Strong focus on placement testing)
Best for: Children who thrive on repetition, clear rules, and measurable academic benchmarks.
📍  1185 Hollenbeck Ave, Sunnyvale (Elementary), 18811 Cox Ave, Saratoga (Pre-K)

Private Schools in West San Jose

Diverse K-8 Options & Community-Centric private schools in West San Jose and Campbell for Different Learning Styles.

In West San Jose/Campbell area offers a mix including strong religious schools and neighborhood-focused options, but both regions boast top-tier private education, differing more in specialized focus and community feel than overall quality, with both areas feeding into elite universities.

Archbishop Mitty High School

9-12
$$
🎨 Creative Arts | 🎓 Academic
Strong athletic programs and performing arts deparmtns. It offers diverse array of AP courses and electives. The size of school (1700+) is overwhelming though. It's highly competative to get into, especially for students not coming from other Catholic middle schools

Admission Selectivity: High
Best for: Self-advocating, "high-energy" students who want to be part of a massive, spirited community and excel in competitive environments.
📍1075 W Union Ave, Campbell, CA 95008)

Campbell Christian Schools

Preschool-8
$
💖 Nurturing | 🤖 Tech-Focused
Known for modernized facilities and a strong middle school leadership program. Tech is presented in the classes and it has a "whole-child" focus that isn't as high-pressure as nearby prep schools. But the green space in the campus is limited.

Admission Selectivity: Moderate
Best for: Families seeking a safe, tech-savvy Christian environment with on-site extended care and a strong community feel
📍  3777 Stevens Creek Blvd., Ste 310, Santa Clara, CA 95051

St. Lucy School

Preschool-8
$
💖 Nurturing
It's said that a high percentage of graduates attend top-tier private high schools. Yet the facilities and curriculum are not up-to-date.

Admission Selectivity: Moderate
Best for: Families seeking faith based Cathoic schools
📍  76 Kennedy Ave, Campbell, CA 95008

Private Schools in San Mateo

Learn About Top-Rated Elementary, Middle, and High School in San Mateo, Burlingame and Foster City.

San Mateo/Burlingame schools are more "approachable" in price compared to the $60k+ schools in Hillsborough and Palo Alto. While still elite, they tend to focus more on community and traditional character rather than the "tech-accelerator" vibe found further south. For our local page, we will include Junipero Serra High School (all-boys) and Mercy Burlingame (all-girls). Serra is the go-to for sports and "brotherhood though make sure you already read what "critics" say. Mercy is great for a small, supportive girls' environment but doesn't have the massive endowment or facilities of the bigger secular prep schools.
Nueva's "iLab" is often cited as a model for Maker Spaces
Nueva’s San Mateo (High School) campus and Hillsborough (K-8) campus have won numerous AIA (American Institute of Architects) awards for sustainable, innovative design. Their "iLab" is often cited as a model for Maker Spaces globally. Photo credit @Richard Barnes

Junipero Serra High School

9-12
$$
🎓 Academic | 💖 Nurturing (Brotherhood)
It is arguably the most famous all-boys school in the region, known for the "Serra Brotherhood". Parents value the focus on character and the massive alumni network. While academically solid, some parents criticize the school for its heavy sports focus which can overshadow the arts.

Admission Selectivity:  Medium
Best for: Boys who thrive in a high-energy, social environment and value strong peer bonds and school spirit
📍  475 Pope St, San Mateo, CA 94401

St. Matthew's Episcopal Day School

PK-8
$$$
🎓 Academic | 💖 Nurturing
TechKnowHow reports long history (30+ years) with experienced staff mentoring children in building and coding projects; parents on Yelp highlight engaging builds and strong instructor interaction.

Admission Selectivity:  Medium
Best for: Known for turning out kids who are very comfortable speaking in public and acting like "young adults." Parents appreciate the balance of structure and kindness, but some feel the math and tech tracks aren't as aggressive as the Silicon Valley "hacker" schools.
📍16 Baldwin Ave, San Mateo, CA 94401

The Carey School

PK-5
$$$
💖 Nurturing | 🎓 Academic
t’s a small, traditional elementary school that focuses on "the basics" plus character. Parents love that it feels like a cozy bubble, but the big complaint is the "5th-grade cliff"—you have to re-apply to middle schools just as your kid is hitting puberty.

Admission Selectivity:  High
Best for: Parents who want a gentle, high-quality start and don't mind the stress of switching schools after 5th grade.
📍1 Carey School Ln, San Mateo, CA 94403

Private Schools in Hillsborough

Elite Private Education & Holistic learning Communities in Hillsborough, with nearby San Carlos and Belmont Options.

While this region is less aggressively STEM- or test-prep-driven than parts of the South Bay, it offers a strong balance of nurturing culture and solid academics — along with a wider range of tuition options. Programs like Odyssey (rigorous academics paired with emotional intelligence and self-reflection), Pacific Rim (dual-language Montessori immersion), and Belmont Oaks stand out for their thoughtful, student-centered approaches.

If your top priority is coding and robotics, machine learning, competition math, or intensive test prep, you’ll generally find more concentrated options in the South Bay.

The Nueva School

PK-8
🤖 Tech-Forward | 🎨 Creative
$$$$
This is the campus for "gifted" younger kids. It’s huge on project-based learning and "design thinking." Parents love that kids aren't bored, but the social scene can be elitist, and the IQ-based entry requirement makes it a "hard no" for many families regardless of money.

Admission Selectivity:  Extremly High (IQ 130+) 
Best for: Familieis who want kids to have IB diploma and French cultrual immersion.
📍4208 Olympic Ave, San Mateo, CA 94403

Charles Armstrong School

2-8
🧠 Enrichment (Neuro-divergent friendly)
$$$$
This school specializes entirely in students with language-based learning differences like dyslexia. Parents consistently rave about the transformative impact on their child’s confidence and reading ability. A downside is the high cost—equivalent to elite prep schools—and a focus purely on remediation over extensive extracurriculars.

Admission Selectivity:  Moderate
Best for: Bright students with a confirmed diagnosis of dyslexia who need a highly specialized, supportive learning environment.

Crystal Springs Uplands School

6-12
🎓 Academic
$$$$
This is a heavy-duty academic prep school often cited as an "Ivy pipeline." Parents appreciate the rigorous academics and the culture where "it's cool to be smart." The primary weakness noted by parents is the intense stress level and high volume of homework, even in middle school.

Admission Selectivity:  Extremely High
Best for: Students who are naturally high achievers and thrive in a competitive, fast-paced academic environment.
📍 400 Uplands Dr, Hillsborough, CA 94010 (Upper); 10 Davis Drive, CA 94002 (Middle)
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Private Schools in Fremont

Competitive Academics & Tech-Forward Private Schools for Preschool-12

Because Fremont public schools are already the top choices in the nation, local private schools must offer extreme academic acceleration - ofteen placing students 2-3 years ahead in math - to justify the tuition.  Unlike SF or Peninsula, where schools compete on innovation or social status, the East Bay market is driven by parents seeking a competative edge or a safe, value-alinged enviornemnt.  

Other options are Newark Christian School (faith-based values), Mission Hills Middle School (Small, high-nurture middle school), Alsion (Montessori apporach with the "marketplace" program parents love), and New Horizons School (affordibility).

BASIS Independent Fremont

TK-12
$$
🎓 Academic | 🤖 Tech-Focused
It offers a rigorous subject-expert teacher model. student move through a curriculm designed to prepare them for AP courses and university-level work much easier than traditional shool. Some parents report a high-pressure environment; the campus playground are noted as smaller.

Admission Selectivity: High (competitive in Fremont Area)
Best for: Students enoy rigorous acdemic challenge.
📍3300 Kearney St. Fremont, CA 94538

Fremont Christian School

TK-12
$
🎨 Creative Arts
Strong community feel and high "school spirit" that public schools in the area often lack. It offers a wide range of extracurriculars including sports, arts, and labs.  Several parents cite inconsistent teacher quality, disciplinary inconsistencies, and enviornements that felt less supprotive for some students.

Admission Selectivity: Low-Medium
Best for: Families seeking a "whole-child" education that balance sports and arts with values.
📍 2675 Stevenson Blvd #101, Fremont, CA 94538

Challenger School - Ardenwood

PK-8
$$
🎓 Academic
kids leave smiling and engaged.Kids who are motivated by game-linked progression and want a fun yet structured path into coding and introductory robotics. Limited programs in arts/sports.

Admission Selectivity: Moderate
Best for: Students who need a structured, traditional academic environment to prepare them for competitive high schools.
📍46525 Mission Blvd Suite 710, Fremont, CA 94539

Stratford School

PK-8
$$
🎓 Academic | 🤖 Tech-Focused
Very popular in the Fremont tech community for providing a strong academic foundation (especially in phonics and math) while maintaining better music and art programs than the local public schools. The "Oakhurst" campus in Fremont is particularly well-regarded for its Middle School leadership program. From our interactions with the paretns, feedbacks of each campus and classes vary widely

Admission Selectivity: Medium to High
Best for: Students who need a structured, traditional academic environment to prepare them for competitive high schools.
📍43077 Osgood Rd, Fremont, CA 94539

Moreau Catholic High School@ Hayward

Age 6-12+
$28k+
🤖 Tech-Focused| 🎨 Creative Arts
While technically in Hayward, it serves as the "go-to" private high school for Union City and Fremont families. Moreau is famous for its Visual and Performing Arts (VPA)programs. It’s a top choice for students interested in dance, theater, and digital media. It is great for students who want a rigorous college-prep curriculum but don't want to sacrifice their social life or extracurriculars. It.

Admission Selectivity: Medium
Best for: Well-rounded students who want a "big school" feel (sports, rallies, clubs) but within a private, supportive framework.
📍 27170 Mission Blvd, Hayward, CA 94544

Private Schools in Walnut Creek

Reputable Suburban Schools & High-Resource Learning Private Schools in Contra Costa County -  Walnut Creek and Lamorinda.

It's an area where parents value social-emotional intelligence, screen-free play, and nature-based development. The "quality of childhood" over academic pressure are wha the schools offer here. We also like Sonder Creek Academy where gifted students can work a full grade ahead in a small setting; The Meher Schools is known for nurturing, "whole-child" preschool and elementary school.

The Saklan School

PK-8
$$
💖 Nurturing | 🌍 Bilingual
Students receive daily Spanish and specialized music/art educiation. It also provides the smallest class sizes in the area, allowing for personalized approach. But it also means fewer competitive sports teams than school like Seven Hills.

Admission Selectivity: Medium
Best for: Famiily prefer family-like environement and integrated Spanish track
📍 1678 School St, Moraga, CA 94556

Orinda Academy

8-12
$$$
💖 Nurturing | 🎓 Academic
It provides supportive, personalized environment with exceptionally caring teachers, which is often life-changing for students with learning differences or anxiety who struggled in larger public schools. The primary drawbacks mentioned are fewer extracurricular offerings compared to larger schools, some concerns about high teacher turnover, and occasional past criticism regarding administrative handling of specific student behavior issues

Admission Selectivity: Medium
Best for: Well-rounded students who want a "big school" feel (sports, rallies, clubs) but within a private, supportive framework.
📍 19 Altarinda Rd, Orinda, CA 94563

Bently School

K-12
$$$
🎓 Academic | 🎨 Creative Arts
Although the teachers and admin staffs turnover has been a recent point of concern, and some parents desire more STEAM specailization.  Its emphasis on 8:1 ratio, elite college placement that are appreicated by the parents. and tight knit community across both campuses are appreaciated by the parents.

Admission Selectivity: High
Best for: Students seeking strong academic foundation and continuity from elementary through high school.
📍 1000 Upper Happy Valley Rd, Lafayette, CA 94549 (Upper School).

Seven Hills School

Preschool-8
$$
💖 Nurturing | 🌲 Nature/Play
A stunning, expansive campus with 9.4 acres of playing fields and high-end tech integration (1:1 iPads). Some families would like it to provide more acdemic foucs and feel like it's more like a structured play-enviroenment.

Admission Selectivity: Medium
Best for: Kids want to be known in a supportive environement where curiosity is the main driver.
📍975 N San Carlos Dr, Walnut Creek, CA 94598

Private Schools in Oakland

Creative, Inclusive, & Established Private Institutions in Oakland, Berkeley,  and Alameda For a Variety of Student Needs.

This is an aea offers a diverse spectrum of educational philosophies, ranging from social-emotional (SEL) 'whole-child' models to those with competitive environments with exceptionally high academic ceilings. Selecting which to feature is a challenge. We find a strong local preference for programs that integrate activism, nature, and the arts.

Notable standouts include The Academy-Berkeley for its accelerated track, Park Day School for its focus on nature-based play, and St. Paul’s Episcopal, prized for its service-learning and inclusive atmosphere. In Berkeley, The Crowden School offers a unique music-first curriculum, while Black Pine Circle School fosters deep inquiry by encouraging students to ask 'why' and 'how' rather than focusing on rote memorization."
The campus of College Prep School feels like a hidden, leafy sanctuary
The campus of the College Prep School feels like a hidden, leafy sanctuary wherethe open-air layout and content "Harkness table" discussions push our kids to be collaborative and articulate.

Julia Morgan School for Girls

9-12
$$$
💖 Nurturing |  🤖 Tech-Focused
A dedicated all-girls enviornment that help girls foster leadership skills. It has exceptional focus on social-emtoional learning and self-advocacy. The urban campus is beautiful but lacks sprawling sports facilities that many schools offer. Becuase its middle school only, families need to star the "high school search" almost as soon as they arrive.

Admission Selectivity: HIgh
Best for: Parents who want their daughters to be empowered and find their voice before the challenges of high school.
📍 5000 MacArthur Blvd, Oakland, CA 94613

Head-Royce School

K-12
$$$
🎓 Academic | 🎨 Creative Arts
Excellent local Yelp reviews note fun, hands-on robotics and STEM activities where kids enjoy building and creative play. Many parents send multiple workshops; this program is particularly good for early exposure and confidence building in robotics basics.

Admission Selectivity: Medium
Best for: Families looking for a lifelong school "home" with a diverse student body and traditional values.

📍 4315 Lincoln Ave, Oakland, CA 94602

The College Preparatory School (CPS)

9-12
$$$$
🎓 Academic | 🤖 Tech-Focused
The most elite and academically rigorous high schools that some alumni find college to be easier than high school. In recent years, approximately three-quaters of graduating seniors have been National Merit semifinalists, finalists, or winners. Though some parents argue that the extreme rigor can actually hurt college application as the students may receive lower GPAs at College Prep then they would at other top schools, which can be disadvantage. Some families also experience the "snobbery", noting that it can negatively impact a student's self-worth if they do not fit into the specifics social or academic mold. Though its "woke" education conepts may not be ideal for many parents.  

Admission Selectivity: High
Best for: Self-starter students that seek a collegiate-level
📍 16100 Broadway, Oakland, CA 94618

Aurora School

K-8
$$
💖 Nurturing | 🎓 Academic
Aurora is known locally for deep integration of Social Emotional Learning (SEL) and critical thinking across K-8; parents appreciate how the school build confience, empathy, and leadership through project-based and experiential learning.  

Admission Selectivity: Moerate
Best for: Students who flourish with collaboration and SEL focus, and families who value a holistic and progressive education.
📍 40 Dulwich Rd, Oakland, CA 94618

Private Schools in Tri-Valley

Family-Focused Education in the Heart of the Tri-Valley-  Dublin and nearby Pleasanton, San Ramon, and Danville.

The Tri-Valley area is home to multiple robotics teams that consistently win at the state, national, and world championship levels, so it's not a surprise that the area is rapidly evolving as a prime expansion target for rigorous, high-performing private school brands. Other notable mentions are BASIS Independent Dublin, with tuition around $44,785 for grades 6–12 in the 2026–2027 school year is scheduled to open in Fall 2026. St. Raymond Catholic School in Dublin offers a faith-based alternative with accelerated academics, providing a different but appealing choice for many local families.
Athenian School's building
The Athenian School proritizes a hands-on approach and is known for "makerspace integration" and the Athenian Wilderness Expereince.  

Brave Christian School

Preschool - 12
$$
🎨 Creative Arts
Formerly Valley Christian, Brave Christian Schools offers a hilltop campus with a strong emphasis on Christian values and a competitive 'Lions' athletic and arts program. Note: While a private college launch is in the works, current class sizes have shifted to 18 due to regional staffing shortages.

Admission Selectivity: Moderate
Best for: Well-rounded students who want a "big school" feel (sports, rallies, clubs) but within a private, supportive framework.
📍  6363 Tassajara Rd, Dublin, CA 94568

Stratford School (Chain)

Preschool-8
$$
🎓 Academic
Well-structured STEAM and liberal arts integrated curriculum; collaborative classrooms and project-based learning are regular parent highlights. Offers multiple campuses in the Dublin-Pleasanton area for elementary and middle school. Although: It's noted that consistency aries by campus, and family experience depends on specific teacher terms - It is also what we heard from our personal friends.

Admission Selectivity: Moderate
Best for: Students who enjoy enriched curriculum with structed academics.
📍 6665 Amador Plaza Rd, Dublin, CA 94568 |  800 Stoneridge Dr, Pleasanton (Middle), 4576 Willow Rd, Pleasanton (Elementary)

The Dorris-Eaton School

PreK- 8
$$
💖 Nurturing | 🎓 Academic
It focuses on traditional mastery of reading, writing, and math. Some shared that the environment can feel "old school" and rigid to families seeking a creative approach. Additionally, because the curriculum is highly accelerated, students transferring from public schools in middle school may find the academic transition challenging and the support for "catching up" limited.

Admission Selectivity: Medium
Best for: Students who thrive in orderly, predictable environments and parents who prioritize foundational excellence above all
📍12800 Annabel Ln, San Ramon, CA 94583

The Athenian School

6-12
$$$
🌲 Nature/Play 🎨 Creative Arts
Set on 75 acres, Athenian has a focus on experiential learning - building airplanes, robots through outdoor challenges. Graduates maintain exceptionally high SAT/ACT scores and gain admission to elite universities. However, some parents feel that the pure academic and STEM intensity is less rigorous than other elite prep schools, which can be a concern given the high tuition. 

Boarding is an option for about 25% of the Upper School student body.

Admission Selectivity: High (6th-9th entry point is extremely competative)
Best for: Adventurous, self-motivated students who value global citizenship, character building, and a "whole-child" liberal arts approach to education.
📍2100 Mount Diablo Scenic Blvd, Danville, CA 94506

Quarry Lane

PK-12
$$$
🎓 Academic | 🤖 Tech-Focused
It offers a competitive robotics program and has a heavy focus on academics and competition. Similar to Harker and other academically focused schools, it can feel like a "pressure cooker" for some students. While many parents are pleased with its strong college admission results, some parents have noted that Quarry Lane offers scholarships to high-performing students to help boost the school's admission statistics and rankings.

Admission Selectivity: Medium
Best for: Driven, STEM-oriented students who are looking for a competitive edge for Ivy League or UC admissions.
📍6363 Tassajara Rd, Dublin, CA 9456

Private Schools in San Francisco

A Guide to San Francisco Private Schools for Elementary, Middle, and High School.

San Francisco private schools stand out because they focus more on progressive values, and creative thinking than the high-pressure STEM schools in the South Bay. Parents here often go private to avoid the city's public school lottery and to find a community.

Beyond the major prep academies, the city offers specialized options like the Town School for Boys, which is a leader in all-boys education, and the San Francisco Friends School, known for its Quaker-inspired focus on service and reflection. Convent & Stuart Hall - the IB choice-  known for its four-school model of single-sex elementary and co-ed high school; Presidio Hill School, that uses the Presidio National Park as its primary classroom; and The Bay School  (9-12) famous for its immersive block schedule and stunning location. If you are intersted in AI-ppwered private school in SF, read our Alpha School review here.  

Lick-Wilmerding High School

9-12
$$$$
🎨 Creative Arts | 🤖 Tech-Focused
Famous for its Technical Arts integrated with elite college prep. Parents like  culture where kids are "cool" for building furniture, coding robots, and social activism simultaneously.

Admission Selectivity: Very high/Elite (One of the most difficult admissions in the country)
Best for: Polymath students who want to build things with their hands while pursuing Ivy-level academics.
📍 755 Ocean Ave, San Francisco, CA 94112

The Hamlin School

K-8
$$$
🎓 Academic | 💖 Nurturing
An elite, all-girls academic powerhouse known for producing confident female leaders.  Though some parents feel that the high-achievement culture is not for everyone as not every girl is naturally competative.

Admission Selectivity: High (focus on "fit" and student potential)
Best for: Ambitious girls who want to find their voice in a high-resource, supportive environment.
📍 2120 Broadway, San Francisco, CA 94115

San Francisco Day School

K-8
$$$
💖 Nurturing | 🎓 Academic
Overall, parents share that it's a warm, tight-knit community that feels like family while offering rigorous progams and great teachers.  It's said that they have balanced curriculum that challenges students academically while fostering essential skills like problem-solving, empathy, and emotional wellness. Plus robust arts and smaller class sizes.

Admission Selectivity: High
Best for: families who value a student-centered, intentional co-ed experience in an urban setting.
📍 350 Masonic Ave, San Francisco, CA 94118

Convent of Sacred Heart

PK-12
$$$
💖 Nurturing | 🎓 Academic
Parents praise the school for its strong academic, nurturing community, faith integration, but criticisum surface regarding bulling management and high-pressure enviroment , which some parents feeling the school mishandled issues or the school priortized image over addressing deep rooted problems like racisum or homophobia.

Admission Selectivity: Moerate
Best for: Parents who are looking for
📍2222 Broadway, San Francisco, CA 94115

The International School of San Francisco

PK-12
$$$
🌍 Bilingual | 🎓 Academic
The first bilingual schools in the U.S. It offers the International Bacclaureate (IB) and the French Baccalaure and has strong reputation for fostering independatn students, with a low 7:1 student-teacher ratio that supports personalized learning, with ongoing programs with schools overseas. The curriculum is demanding, students must manage two  language at a high academic level.

Admission Selectivity: High (Language rediness for older grades is required)
Best for: Familieis who want kids to have IB diploma and French cultrual immersion.
📍 150 Oak St, San Francisco, CA 94102

San Francisco University High School

9-12
$$$$
🎓 Academic | 🤖 Tech-Focused
Parents praise San Francisco University High School (UHS) for its elite academics, high college matriculation (100% to 4-year colleges), diverse student body, and strong community feel, but some criticisms mention concerns about immense academic pressure, social dynamics, and a need for more individualized support, although the school is private, these general parental discussions highlight both strengths and challenges in high-performing environments.

Admission Selectivity:  Very High/Elite
Best for: Familieis who want kids to have IB diploma and French cultrual immersion.
📍 3065 Jackson St, San Francisco, CA 94115

Chinese American International School

Preschool-8
$$$
🌍 Bilingual / 🎓 Academic
Founded in 1981. It offers a rigorous dual language curriculum, alternating full days between English and Mandarin from preschool through grade 5, with continued immersion through middle school. Students learn core subjects (math, science, language arts) in both languages, building proficiency and biliteracy. It also offers low student teacher ratio and provide rich cultural experiences and international trips to enhance understanding of global contexts.

Admission Selectivity:  Very High/Elite
Best for: Students and families who want true Mandarin immersion and the global perspective as the world is changing.
📍 150 Oak St. SF, CA 94102


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